Whether it’s approaching dawn of a new year or just simply the holidays, there’s a good chance you may be feeling more stressed out than usual right now.
A lot of us are already too busy, says wellness expert Dr. Ann Kulze. “Then, you add to that the added responsibilities and obligations, more social engagements, entertaining people, family coming in,” she says. “That means, oh, I’ve got to clean up the yard and the house. And I have additional cooking. And if it’s Christmas, I’ve got to think about what I’m going to get for people, what presents I’m going to get.”
Fortunately, there are some ways to mitigate this stress, and we spoke with wellness and organization experts about ways to keep it all together even when you’d like to run away from it all.
1. Make a plan
Whether you need to get yourself or your whole family organized, setting up a plan for the busier times of year can help feel less frazzled when they arrive.
“I’m a big advocate of planners and use them to schedule both work and personal activities,” says Carolyn Kraut, founder and owner of Hands of Time Concierge. “There are also families that still hang wall calendars in their kitchens to track family activities, keeping them separate from their work calendars/planners.”
Luckily, there are plenty of planner options out there, from family-sized wall calendars to personal pocket agendas, desk planners and everything in between.
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2. Move your body
When feelings of stress start to hit, one of the best things you can do is get your body moving.
“Exercise is a very effective way to deal with stress. Moving your body helps to release endorphins, which can balance your mood. The exercise doesn’t have to be complicated or strenuous. Something as simple as a walk can go a long way to help clear your mind,” says wellness entrepreneur Shahada Karim, founder of Habibi Bath & Body and Habibi Sport.
And if you don’t have the time to get out of the house for a workout, finding a quiet space in your home for a quick yoga session is also a great option.
“Yoga is a rock star for stress resiliency [and] stress reduction, for reasons that are obvious and maybe some that we’re still trying to tease out,” explains Kulze. “It’s got the breathing, it’s got the stretching, it’s got the holding of these actual movements, which has this wonderful kind of tranquilizing effect on the body. And then beyond that, it’s the aerobic activity, particularly moderate to vigorous.”
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3. Brew some tea
While you might be inclined to reach for cup after cup of coffee to keep you going through the busy season, try opting for some tea instead.
“I call them kind of superstar foods for stress protection,” Kulze says of stress-relieving teas. “Sipping on freshly brewed tea from camellia sinensis leaf — that’s green tea, black tea, oolong tea, white tea.”
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4. Get a good night’s rest
At any time of year, but especially during the busier seasons, getting good, quality sleep is essential.
“So often during the holiday times, frankly, people are entertaining more and going to more parties, and their sleep is disturbed,” says Kulze. “And that will exponentially decrease your stress resiliency and increase your propensity to feel stress when you shouldn’t, if you’re sleep-deprived.”
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Sometimes all you really need is a hug, and weighted blankets like our favorite ones at Bearaby provide that calming pressure while you lie on the couch or drift off to sleep.
5. Try out some aromatherapy
And if you’ve only got a few moments to melt some stress away, try lighting an aromatherapy candle, rubbing on some oil or flicking on a diffuser for some relaxing inhalations. While there are many aromatherapy scents to choose from, there’s one you’ll see mentioned time and time again for helping with stress and anxiety.
“Lavender-scented products have been recommended for relaxation and stress relief for as long as I can remember,” says Kraut.
This set will help you with a relaxing routine that helps soothe you into peaceful slumber with the power of aromatherapy.
If a daily shower tends to be the only moment you have to yourself, make it more relaxing with the help of these aromatherapy shower steamers. Available in scents like lavender, eucalyptus and tea tree, there’s an option for every need. And if you need to gift someone a piece of relaxation, you can also grab an aromatherapy gift set too.