Amanda Hensley started abusing prescription painkillers when she was just a teenager. For years, she managed to function and hold down jobs. She even quit opioids for a while when she was pregnant with her now 4-year-old son. But she relapsed.
Hensley says she preferred drugs like Percocet and morphine, but opted for heroin when short on cash.
By the time she discovered she was pregnant last year, she couldn't quit.
"It was just one thing after another, you know — I was sick with morning sickness or sick from using," said Hensley, who is 25 and lives in Cleveland. "Either I was puking from morning sickness or I was puking from being high. That's kind of how I was able to hide it for a while."
Hensley said she was ashamed and hurt, and she wanted to stop using but didn't know how. She had friends who would help her find drugs — even after they found out she was pregnant. But finding help to get sober and protect her child proved much more difficult, though.
The number of people dependent on opioids is increasing and that includes women of child-bearing age, like Hensley. Researchers estimated that every 25 minutes a baby was born dependent on opioids in 2012, the most recent year for which data are available.
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By the time Hensley was about six months pregnant, she was living on couches, estranged from her mother and her baby's father, Tyrell Shepherd. Her son went to live with her mother.
That's when Hensley reached out for help. One moment, she dialed to get her fix. The next, she called hospitals and clinics.
"Nobody wants to touch a pregnant woman with an addiction issue," she said.
Shepherd wasn't happy when he realized Hensley was taking opioids while pregnant. "If you don't care about yourself," he said, "have enough common decency to care about the baby you're carrying. Be adult. Own up to what it is you're doing and take care of business. Regardless of how bad you're going to feel, there's a baby that didn't ask to be there."
After being rejected by two hospitals and several clinics, Hensley let herself go into withdrawal and then went to the emergency department of MetroHealth System, Cleveland's safety-net hospital.
Under the auspices of a state-supported program, Hensley was prescribed Subutex — an opioid replacement drug that has helped her stop abusing drugs.
Her baby girl Valencia was born three months later. Mom and baby had their own room at the hospital, where nurses encouraged snuggling and breastfeeding. The nurses were also on hand to drop liquid morphine into Valencia's mouth if needed, because the baby, too, had to be slowly weaned off of opioids.
Hensley cries as she remembers those early days: "She wouldn't latch on — we couldn't get her to feed. I couldn't get her to stop crying. She was very fussy and I realized, 'I did that to her. I took her choice away.' And that's one thing I still need to work through because I haven't forgiven myself for that."
Hensley hasn't abused opioids in nine months, and Valencia is now about 6 months old. She has chubby baby cheeks and clear brown eyes the size of saucers.
During a recent visit Valencia kept cooing and smiling — especially when her mother was nearby.
"She started saying mamma," Hensley said. "So now, at night when she wakes up, that's what I hear: 'Mamma, ma, ma, mama.' "
It's been a journey. Hensley said only within the past few months has she stopped having dreams about using opioids.
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Most physicians who specialize in addiction treatment agree that Hensley and her baby received the appropriate care. According to the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, women who are pregnant should have medically-assisted opioid therapy that at least temporarily replaces the drugs they are abusing with opioids that are more stable, like methadone. Withdrawal should be discouraged during pregnancy if opioid-assisted therapy is available.
Quitting opioids cold turkey is dangerous for the infant and could increase the risk of preterm labor or fetal death.
Dr. Stephen Patrick, a neonatologist at Vanderbilt University's School Of Medicine, said the medical community really needs to focus on providing access to medically assisted care for substance abuse.
"I think it's time for us to reshape how we view addiction in the United States," he said. "It is a medical condition — it is not a moral failing."
Patrick has seen first-hand how difficult it is for women to find this medical help. At Vanderbilt and in other communities he's visited around the U.S., he said, he's seen women travel for hours to receive treatments for opioid-use disorder. It's a particularly a problem in rural communities.
Dr. Jennifer Bailit, at MetroHealth, directs the mother's program that helped Hensley, and was her obstetrician. It's a tough problem to tackle, Bailit said.
"These are difficult patients. They are complicated and they have complex social needs," Bailit said. "Many practitioners are just not equipped to deal with the breadth and depth of the kind of issues that come with them."
In the past few years, MetroHealth has become a go-to place for pregnant women in Northeast Ohio, treating more and more patients. The hospital cared for a handful of pregnant women with opioid addiction in 2002. Last year, it saw 160 women, and many of them traveled some distance to reach the facility.
In addition to the sort of opioid replacement therapy that Hensley received, the hospital has a whole package of services to support mothers before and after the baby is born. The hospital assigned Hensley a social worker, and set her up with intense outpatient therapy — three days a week for six months. Hensley still checks in with a doctor at the hospital once a month to get her medications.
The support has helped the whole family recover. Valencia is hitting all her developmental milestones — like rolling over. And Shepherd has really taken to being a dad, regularly feeding the baby, changing diapers, and creating silly noises to make her laugh.
Hensley and Shepherd have picked out their wedding rings and have begun discussing where to have the ceremony. Hensley has gone back to cosmetology school, and the couple is also talking about when they can bring Hensley's older son home.
This story is the third in our four-part series, "Treating the Tiniest Opioid Patients," a collaboration produced by Kaiser Health News, NPR and local NPR member stations.